An Amazing Tactic That Might Get Your Ex To Show Up On Your Doorstep

Are you looking for the best way to go about getting your ex back?

There are many approaches, and it's vital to choose the right one.

I actually discovered this tactic by accident. When my girlfriend and I broke up almost a year ago, one of the reasons was because I had been laid off.

Obviously this wasn't my fault, and there was really nothing I could do about it. Ironically, one of the same reasons for the breakup was a major fact in getting back together.

Since I had gotten laid off, I was obviously low on funds. I was forced to cancel my expensive cell phone plan and switch over to a pre-paid.

This pre-paid phone was instrumental in revealing a tactic that would help me get my ex back.

Do you want to know why? Because it ran out of minutes and I couldn't afford to get more.

You might be asking yourself what that has to do with us getting back together. The answer is simple.

Because the phone ran out of minutes and I didn't have a landline in my apartment, I couldn't call my ex constantly and try to talk her into getting back together.

After a week of not calling her, she actually came knocking on my door at 3 am one Saturday night after she had been to the club with her friends.

I let her in and we made love several times until noon on Sunday! I was totally shocked!

That's when it hit me. The answer was right in front of my face and it was so simple. The tactic I'm referring to is this:

No Contact

That's it! There is nothing complex about it. The biggest mistake that most men make after a breakup is not keeping their distance.

They get needy, emotional, and insecure. They try to "persuade" their ex to get back with them.

Breaking contact is probably the single most effective tactic you can utilize to get her to come back. It's such an unexpected and drastic thing to do that it can literally "shock" your ex into coming back to you.

The reason this works so well is because most guys don't do this right away. It will truly work better if you apply it the same way I did.

I didn't start off right away initiating no contact. It happened because I ran out of minutes.

A great way to go about initiating no contact is to actually call her and tell her that you need some time to think and you're going to keep your distance.

If you've said or done anything you regret up to this point, you should apologize and tell her that you now respect her decision to break up.

Here's an important tip:

Under no circumastances should you get all weepy and tell your how much you love her. If she says it to you, just tell her you have to go and hang up.

I know this may sound cruel, but telling her that you still love her and you'll do anything for her is counterproductive.

She'll immediately think you are trying to play mind games with her because here you are telling her to keep her distance, and in the next breath telling her you'll always be there when she needs you.

It just doesn't work that way. It has to be one or the other, and in your case, it needs to be no contact.

I know you might be thinking that if you do this she'll just forget about you and move on.

I'll tell why that won't happen. First, you don't just forget someone you've been intimate with, especially if you're a woman. Second, some of her feelings for you will probably never go away. Rest assured she won't be forgetting about you anytime soon.

This is where it gets hard. Don't kid yourself into thinking this is going to be easy. You have to hold on and be strong while waiting for her to come around or call you.

You have to understand that this is only the beginning. It's how you behave in the next few weeks that will really determine if you can get your ex back. If you want to find out about the next step, visit How To Get Your Ex Back.